It hurts, right? The way people talk to you, the way they treat you? Makes you feel like you are at fault, that you are guilty. Don’t you want to stop these people, from hurting you so bad? From just using you? I know you do. Everyone does.
I know what it feels like to be used and thrown away, I have been there. You trust the wrong people, as a result, you end up being hurt. People are of many kinds; the ones who make you happy, the ones who hurt you, the ones who love you, the ones who fake love to get you and the list goes on. Shocking, isn’t it? Do you ever wonder, people who look like you: having two eyed and ears, one mouth and one nose, are so different from you? When people who have such alike features and are great in number, it is hard to make proper judgements. Not being able to trust others when you really want to is hard, I know. But what if you can’t trust yourself? That is a whole new level of trust issues.
Having met so many people in life and being hurt so many times, you start doubting yourself. You wonder what’s wrong with you and why don’t you meet the right people. But do you ever stop and wonder about the number of right people you let go?
Sometimes, it is better to listen to your instincts rather than reasoning everything. Your instincts can never be wrong, while your reasons may be made up by the brain. You may think you don’t deserve a chance anymore, while the fact is you owe a chance to yourself to trust again. While your brain is in control, don’t let your soul forget about your heart. Let them both be in control and win the clash between them, you will know when you are supposed to listen to them and when you aren’t. Love yourself and trust yourself because you deserve it.